Thursday, May 31, 2012

The Long Road Home




It seems that lately I have got into a rut, complaining about rude behavior and such. Kind of like Captain Call in Lonesome Dove; “I just won’t tolerate rude behavior in a man.” I had the mindset to comment on that very subject and a great thing happened. We got a contract to sell our house in Texas.

The last 6 months have been difficult to say the least. Not knowing from week to week and then from month to month, have been tough on Susie and me. I guess I could easily vent about people who drive too slow in the fast lane or kids who have their faces permanently affixed to their cell phones, but I now I have a new outlook. Susie was getting tired of my sour mood also and she is what counts the most in my world.

I accepted a job offer back in November 2011 to move back to California and work as an independent rep for an Ag marketing company. What we thought would take 3 or 4 months max to sell our house, took 6 months.  Traveling via plane and rental car can really tax your commission checks. What’s worse is not knowing from week to week whether this was the week it would all happen. I sucked it up and wrote the checks, but I was really getting stressed, not to mention my most patient boss. He really backed me during this transition and he helped make the whole ordeal bearable.

A week ago we were talking about me getting an apartment in California and living there 3 weeks out of the month and coming home to Texas for a week a month. Two days after we had that painful discussion, we got an offer on the house and within 36 hours we had a contract.  I told Susie I had this premonition or funny itch that wouldn’t go away or whatever synonym you can come up with about divine intervention. I felt that God did not want us to be apart that much. I’m not the most religious person in the world, but I still believe. I have my own ways of showing praise and I think it has helped me live a good life.  I’m here to tell you I gave much thanks that day.

Susie and I are geeked (a California term for those that don’t sabe “dude talk”) to get to go back. The mountains of the California Sierra are a sight to see. Oakhurst is small enough to be personal, yet we have all the amenities we need. Fresno is less than an hour away, so we can “go to town for supplies” once a month. We will live 20 minutes from the entrance to Yosemite National Park. Boo yah. That is probably the best part. Every time we visit the park, we see something we didn’t see the last time. I will work about half the state from the Bay area around San Francisco, through the Central Valley over to the Central Coast to southern California, then over to Arizona. Pretty sweet.

People ask me all the time why I want to go back to our part of Cali. Good question. My best response is that I have been there and I have seen. A lot of the negative stereotype about California is way off base. Sure, the tree huggers and liberals are thick, but there are more people like us than you can shake a stick at. I read a book about John Muir, the naturalist, a few months ago. He was from the Midwest and coming to the Sierra’s he saw a majesty that he had to explore and tell the world about. I’m not that much of a nut case, but I see where he was coming from.  

Hopefully we will close on our Texas home and make the move the last week of June. I can’t see us ever forgetting where we came from, but we are damn sure excited to move back home.

Geeked would be a better term.